For many of us, it’s no secret that a woman's ability to enjoy sexual intercourse is a bit more complex than a man's. With male physiology, even with the most basic penetration, by looking at the object of their desire or fantasizing, men often experience strong sensations of arousal and pleasure. For women, things are a bit more complicated. It’s as if the mechanism is more intricate, harder to start, and maintain at a high level (of course, this doesn’t apply to all women).
But in reality, it's not that complicated. It’s just a matter of understanding what specifically helps a particular woman get aroused and maintain that state until the climax. Many men practice in this area and even achieve near-Olympic results. However, the most interesting answers to the question of "How to please a woman?" can often be found among lesbian couples. Knowing their own body, it’s much easier for a woman to understand what might feel good or not so great from the perspective of female physiology and sensations.
Criteria Highlighted by Women in Lesbian Relationships
1. Hygiene
Often, women are more demanding about hygiene and personal care, expecting the same from their partner. Key points include: hair removal (including intimate areas), manicure, pedicure, oral hygiene, and of course, a pleasant and suitable body scent.
2. Foreplay
This can be discussed for hours, but it’s important to understand that foreplay in such couples is longer and richer in sensations and pleasure. In this phase of sexual contact, women fully indulge in pleasure with each other, as each knows where the 'magic spots', or erogenous zones, are located and how to properly stimulate them to reach the highest point of enjoyment. Many have mentioned sex toys that make foreplay simply mind-blowing. These include mini vibrators with ears, which are used to stimulate different zones on the body, from the neck to the toes.
The short ears of this vibrator are very elastic, allowing them to be used in foreplay as imagination permits without fear of injury.
3. Cunnilingus
Of course, cunnilingus holds a special place in women's hearts during foreplay. In lesbian couples, it often serves as the climax of the sexual act. The ability to please a woman with cunnilingus is a significant skill that’s not just about the tongue and clitoris. It’s about confident techniques and enjoying the process itself. Many enhance their skill by using a mini vibrator during cunnilingus, for their own assistance and their partner’s pleasure.
4. Quality Penetration: In lesbian couples, there isn’t always a need for penetration. At least, not every act involves it. Based on their experience and evaluations, we can talk about rabbit vibrators, which, thanks to their design, have multiple stimulation points simultaneously. Notable among rabbit vibrators are R1 and R3, with R3 leading due to its multi-functionality. In addition to various vibration options and simultaneous clitoral stimulation, its main part has a rotation function, making vaginal penetration sensations richer and orgasms brighter and more prolonged.
R1 and R3 rabbit vibrators by aoi
Some women reported experiencing multiple orgasms, both vaginal and clitoral, simultaneously, which is undoubtedly delightful for the owners of these amazing devices.
5. Romance: There’s also a noted need for various romantic atmospheres, settings, and places. Women, by nature (more often than not), are more dreamy and enterprising when it comes to romance. Candles, flowers, lingerie, massage with aromatic oils in a room with an ocean view are just a small part often mentioned in women's stories about needs that are easier to fulfill with a female partner.
Candles, lingerie, and massage with aromatic oils give a nice touch of romance.
Conclusion
What conclusion can be drawn from all of the above? It absolutely doesn’t matter what sexual preference you have. What matters is your involvement, your desire to enhance your knowledge and skills in the intimate sphere, all of which is now completely accessible! Be romantic, choose the best body care for yourself, learn how to perform cunnilingus, and buy a spa certificate for two and massage candles. Enjoy your partner, enjoy yourself, and may you have many orgasms!
